Malcolm's GUIDANCE for You Today
From this point forward today, begin to focus on just one thing you DO want to make happen in your relationship together! Focus your attention, your awareness, on just that one thing for now. Careful that you understand this is a 'desire', not a 'need'. Keep this to your self for a bit - no need to share right away. . . No need to act on it today.
Instead, give your self a couple of days to practice dropping-in to awareness of this new, desired, daily focus - knowing you can act on it once you are practiced and better able to respond deliberately, as this is still all so new now . . .
In awareness, practice over a handful of days, becoming comfortable knowing this will be an unconditional gift to your relationship - happy in the giving, regardless of your partner's response when you do share.
Now is a time to simply allow your attention to drift to this new focal point throughout each day - just trying it on for size in your imagination - experiencing how it fits . . . for you.
If it doesn't fit, you can't force it - that serves no one. In that case, just turn to another desire you have for your relationship; and focus your attention on that new awareness - that new gift.
Perhaps, you can also be guided each day by the question, "Right now, would I rather be right or be happy?"* Practice answering this question from within, in more and more moments . . . now!
If you would rather be happy, then go back to the new focus of what you DO want in your relationship. Start there - rinse and repeat.
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*Colwell, Julia B. 2014. The Relationship Skills Workbook: A Do-It-Yourself Guide to a Thriving Relationship. Sounds True: Boulder, Colorado.